So now that I’ve been here for a full semester and I’ve finally finished all my exams I think it’s time to reflect on what has been the experience of a lifetime. From day one things have been hard and things have been difficult and I will admit at times I’ve felt like throwing in the towel, but I didn’t. And I’m glad I didn’t and I owe a massive thank you to all of those who have supported me throughout, especially Michael who has put up with me thought out the positive and the negative days providing an endless bed rock for me to lean on when I needed him.
McGill
Let’s start with the main reason for me leaving Britain and travelling to Montreal, Canada; Studying. First impressions of McGill were a little mixed, I didn’t feel at home but I liked the North American style university and the sheer number of classes available (at least triple what we have in Aberystwyth). But then once I got to the classes I realised that working before, so doing the readings etc., wasn’t actually needed because lecturers like to spoon feed the information to you.
My main problem with the way that education is conducted at McGill was through the examinations, you’ve been here for less than 6 weeks – Boom her is an exam worth 25% of your grade!!! This annoyed me and frustrated me because I have never – and probably never will be – good at exams. Although I can follow a course it takes a while for everything to go in and for me to understand it. I didn’t fail any of the ‘midterms’ but to get back a couple of very very low marks does nothing for your confidence when you have no back up support.
Then there were the papers, now this is what I’ve always been good at and it shows. Didn’t get anything lower that 70% with most things being between 80-90% but annoyingly your own work and research is not valued half as much in Canada as we do in Britain so none of them counted a great deal towards my overall grades.
And of course there were the obligatory finals – yet more exams, these ones I felt less frustrated with, I could see the point in testing you on your knowledge at the end of the semester – however, I still had a gripe with these. ID questions. Literally you are given a list of concepts and you have to know the name of the author who you’re read about on the course who wrote it, the definition of it and its significance in relation to the course. Now definitions I can understand, and to an extent the significance – but author?!?! If I needed to know that for some strange bizarre unbeknown reason … Wikipedia would probably know. Failing that Google scholar, I really don’t see the need to fill my brain with 101 political scientists, unless I go on mastermind or pointless, the likelihood of me needing them again – 0!!!
Anyway overall I’m looking at around an overall score of 70% for each class – which is a low-mid 2:1 back home which is ok, I would have liked higher but hopefully I can pick them up next semester when I have slightly more time (because of less classes) and aim to get 1sts on as many courses as possible – a 1st overall is still possible (just) but it requires a lot of work. And if there is one thing I can take from my time here; it is that I can easily juggle social life, travelling, working, studying all into my week and still do fairly well. Without the travelling and with an education system I understand and which is tailored to you as much as possible, and allows for dyslexic students to make mistakes, I think I may stand a chance!
Travelling
Travelling wasn’t my reason for coming on exchange, but since I was here and I had the opportunity to, I was certainly going to make the most of it and see as many things as I could – kept telling myself that it may feel like I’m spending a lot of money … but it’s cheaper than paying for transatlantic flights! I think overall on my main trips (including those to come and excluding spending money) I spent about $600 (£375). And that’s 2 New York trips, Boston, Ottawa, Toronto/Niagara falls & Quebec … If I was planning on doing that as a holiday it would have been at least 2 trips, probably more so the savings on flights were certainly worth it and it has made this exchange memorable and fun (and slightly expensive). But then it was a once in a lifetime experience that I will probably never get to do again.
Travelling has been my favourite part of my exchange without a doubt, I’ve met some great people, some of whom I’m hoping to travel and see during my holidays if I get the chance and the money to go. I still have a few places I would like to visit but from Montreal it’s a similar price as going from the UK and I’m running out of time rapidly to go. If I had one bit of advice to give to students on exchange – it’s get out their go on trips and see the world. You may never get to go again and going with a bunch of exchange students just means you go crazy and have so much fun it’s unreal. Who cares if you can’t afford it, I was going to come out of university with a massive debt anyway, may as well add some travelling onto that as well. And still, by the end of the year my exchange shouldn’t have cost me much more than my student loan … Not bad really.
Friends and Family
For me, heading back to the UK is a welcome sight. I never really thought I was a massive friends and family person. But I am, I’ve always enjoyed their company and I love spending time with them, and they are the things that keep me going no matter what. Homesickness, hasn’t been present as such throughout my time here, I can go along all day absolutely fine. Doing whatever I need to do and studying and filling my time. But evenings when the UK is asleep so my phone and Facebook are quiet it kicks in. I’ve shed a fair few tears because I wanted a hug or someone else to sort something out for once but the next morning I’m ok. Michael has been brilliant for this, even when he is really tired if he knows I’m crying he won’t sleep until he has cheered me up, got me on my feet again and sent me a Mikeybear hug on Skype. Thank you.
The 7th of January is only a few days away and assuming the world doesn’t end tomorrow like the predictions say, I will be getting on that plane, hand in hand with Michael, ready to come back to the UK, to you and all my friends I hope you have a very merry Christmas, and a happy new year.